Behind the Blooms
Friday, January 9, 2009










It's not always fairies and unicorns, even the "glamorous" life of a florist! Folks in love, love to get married in Charleston. Often, they plan outdoor weddings beachside, at a plantation, country club or even rooftop. The vision is perfect, but the lingering thought is "What if the weather turns bad?"




Relax. In the 13 years we've been in the floral and wedding biz, we've only had two weekends lost because of hurricanes. On one of those cancelled weekends the weather turned out to be terrific. We've had rain, but it doesn't ruin the event unless you let it. It may sound easy for us to say...let's face it we're not the ones getting married. Believe me, we live and die with every event as if it were ours. Let me tell you about a secret dynamic I've observed over the years: Bad weather MAKES a great party!




I've seen it happen many times, going back to my hotel career. Something special happens when a storm comes rolling in during an event. People get excited, there's electricity in the air (no, not lightening). Folks go into disaster mode and pitch in moving furniture, gathering the kids, saving the cake. Heroes are made! If the bride and groom can keep their poise and go with the flow, all goes great.




Now I'm not saying to stand on the beach and exchange your vows during a torrential downpour. That would be silly and dangerous. Tweek your event around the storm. Wait 30 minutes for the rain to pass. Or exchange your vows in the tent and have your first dance on the beach. Relax, react, and enjoy.
The photos above are from an event on Kiawah Island that was planned to be on the Sanctuary's Grand Lawn. 30 minutes before the event, a storm blew in out of nowhere and we moved everything inside. The hydrangea topiary on top was one of two used to frame the bride and groom during thier vows. The rose petal aisle was moved from the lawn to a ballroom. The dining tables were as well. Now, we took those photos in a hurry, soaking wet, just before we left. Admittedly, they are not going to be on the cover of Modern Bride Magazine. But use your imagination for a minute, because this turned out to be a great wedding ceremony and event.
Look closely at the photo of the rose petal aisle and the dining table. You'll see clear vases with candles. A lot of candles.
Now imagine the rain beating down on the roof, thunder shaking the walls and lightning flashing through the windows showing the surf pounding on the beach. The bride and groom, family, and guests are safe and snug in the ballroom. The lights are dimmed, candle light flickering and the soft music of a harpist playing "Here Comes the Bride". Later, the bar opens, the dining is extraordinary, and the power of the storm seems to have energized the entire event. I've seen it happen many times.
A couple years ago this happened on a private plantation in Mt Pleasant. It was an awesome event, took a LOT of planning. The fine event planners at WED did a great job. It was 300 people in a tent. Since it was a private plantation there was no indoor alternative; they were committed to the tent. It rained as hard as it possibly could. Part of the tent began to collapse and when the lightning fried an amp, enough was enough. The wedding reception was cancelled just a few dances after the dinner. The entire party squeezed into the rambling old home, in the kitchen, the garage, anywhere they could fit.
I went the next morning to pick up our rental items. I never saw anything like it. Tables were flipped over, half the dance floor floated away, champagne glasses were filled to the rim with rain water. As I was gathering our rental items, feeling terrible for the event gone bad, an elderly couple crossed the lawn. I think they were the aunt and uncle of the groom. They walked over to me and I said something about feeling bad about the weather and all. The woman said "Child, that was the best wedding I ever went to! So much excitement!" The man agreed, and then a few more guests showed up to survey the storm damage. They all had a great time, and said they wouldn't have changed a thing. They all mentioned how nothing seemed to fluster the bride, and when they saw she was having fun they just joined in. That was the important lesson for me.
If you're planning an outdoor event, I hope it is exactly what you envision. But remember, if it starts to blow hard or rain, stay flexible, relax, react and enjoy!



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Tuesday, November 18, 2008
You know that saying "What goes up must come down"? Well it's definitely true in event decor. We spend months planning events, from the wash lighting on the ceiling to the napkin ties. We order linen from Chicago, props from China, and flowers from everywhere just to bring them all together for one night. All week we'll have folks making floral arrangements, cleaning lanterns, scheduling vehicles....the list goes on and on. Then, in a frantic but well choreographed excercise we'll put them all up in several locations in a matter of a few hours. The event will look great, and a "good time will be had by all."
Then what?
Well, after the last dance has been danced and the last drink has been drunk, that decor needs to come down. Pronto. That's when the Tiger Lily Pick-Up Artists take over.
On a typical event night, we'll have one, two, maybe even four vans hitting the road around 10pm. Each driver, or "pick-up artist" will have a list of venues they need to visit and items they need to retrieve.
The pick-up artists, Taylor, Kim, Steve and at times myself have our own "tales from the front" to tell. Let's see, wading into waste deep surf to retrieve a chuppa frame after the tide came up, climbing in the rafters at Wild Dunes at midnight during a hurricane warning, or a real threatening situation: tipsy, frisky bridesmaids after last call! Don't forget about our Charleston ghosts either.
There is a story about a ghost at Middleton Place Plantation. Tiger Lily is the official florist at Middleton Place, and we do a LOT of events there. I might have some of the facts wrong, but the jist of the story is this: During the civil war, the owner of Middleton Place buried his valuables under a giant oak tree while Union General Tecumsuh Sherman conductued his infamous March to the Sea. Mr Middleton told only one person of the location of the treasure, a trusted black servant. Legend has it the Union soldiers threatened to hang the servant if he did not tell them the location of the treasure. The servant did not tell the soldiers, and they indeed hung him from an oak tree, THE oak tree where the treasure was buried! His ghost haunts that tree to this day. Tragic and ironic. Also ironic is that the oak tree is the same oak tree that bridal couples get married under at Middleton.
And there I was at midnight on a cool, windy, moonless night trying to do the pick-up. Now I'm not much for ghosts ,and I didn't actually see anything but I came away a believer of ghosts after that night. I had no flashlight, it's about a 100 yard walk from the van to the tree, and I stumbled over every root inbetween. The noise out there was deafening. Crickets, cicadas, jumping fish, rustling leaves, creaking tree limbs. I think I even heard a couple snakes slithering. Ever hear a snake slither? It's pretty wild. Of course, I may have just imagined that part, but that's where my head was by the time I made it to the tree.
I knew the story of the tree and the trusted servant. I felt the chill down my back, I was waiting for his voice in my ear, his hand on my back. Doing the math, I figured I had a 50-50 chance of making it back to the van that night. Well, it all happened and I survived. But let me tell you, midnight on an ancient plantation, all alone under a haunted oak tree, that's an experience!
Sorry for the rambling there, but this blog is "Behind the Blooms" a behind the scenes look at what we do at Tiger Lily, so there you go.
Back to the pick-ups. After the pick-up artists have gathered all the items and dodged all the bridesmaids, they park and lock the now fully loaded vans back at the shop. On Monday, the first thing we do is unload the vans and start seperating, cleaning and storing all the items. It takes a couple of folks all day Monday to get it done. The top photo is of Brenda sorting rented linen. This stuff needs to be sorted, counted, verified, packed in the large blue shipping bags and sent back to where it came from, in this case Chicago. Brenda found a couple dinner rolls and dessert spoons in this pile!
The bottom photo is of Marisol surrounded by 25 large cylinder vases. Each have to be counted, emptied and painstakingly cleaned before they are stored. We're talking washed, dried, then Windexed. Scraping the melted candle wax from hurricane shades and lantern glass is the toughest job. Each takes about 30 minutes and it's not uncommon to have 20 or more out on a Saturday. That's a long day. We store all of our items cleaned, so that when we need them we can just reach for them and they are ready to go.
So a lot of folks think that they know what we do at Tiger Lily: Stand behind tables and make pretty flowers. We do that, along with scraping wax, sorting linen, climbing rafters, cleaning glass, and dodging ghosts. And bridesmaids.





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